TEn ways to identify a Real player. Authentic solutions. .

TEn ways to identify a Real player. Authentic solutions.
. It's okay. You can hate the player AND hate the
game. Just be smart and know how it's played.
We've seen him in movies, we've read about him in
books, but what if the guy you are interested in is the
player we have come to detest. Avoid being played
by learning how to manufacture the game. Look for
these tell-tale signs of a modern day Casanova.
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1. He keeps the lady in waiting. Showing up
extremely late, failing to properly cancel plans
and not responding to texts or emails during
conversation are signs of a blow off. Your time is
not important to him because he knows he can
see you anytime he wants.
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2. Wandering eyes so he can see. Does an
attractive girl come in his line of vision and he
loses focus on you to focus on her? Does he
distance himself from you when you are
together if there are pretty girls around? These
could be signs that he wants to appear
unattached and available. If he is busy shopping
for his 'next' while he is with you, let him go.
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3. Flirtatious and friendly. Although this can be a
harmless personality trait in some, a player
doesn't know how to control it. Flirting is his
second language. He calls the lady at check out
"Hon", the hostess at the restaurant "Sweetie",
the cute bartender is his new best friend and the
girl in the short workout outfit is suddenly his
new spotting partner. Every woman he
encounters has potential, in some way or
another.
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4. Communication is hit or miss. One day you are
texting every two minutes, the next two days you
don't hear from him. If there is inconsistancy
with your pattern of talking which is not
explained by work or other obligations, chances
are he sees his connection with you like a library
book. He can check in or out as necessary.
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5. Your relationship is strictly private. You have
seen every movie on RedBox but you have never
seen a movie in a theater. You have tried every
take out menu in a ten block radius, but you
have never been taken out for dinner. If you
spend more time indoors than outdoors (and not
for the good reasons), he may be keeping you
inside, as a chick on the side.
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6. Late night dates. Does Mr. Tall Dark &
Handsome only seem to know your number
after 2 am? Does he text you before he's
heading out on a guys night out and tell you he
wants to stop by after? Flattering as it may be
that he wants to end his night with you, a booty
call is what it looks like.
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7. No photos allowed. If he shys away from taking
a picture with you, there's a reason. Unless he is
a vampire and doesn't show up on film, no
photos allowed can mean he doesn't want to be
immortalized with you.
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8. His friends remain nameless. When talking
about his friends, if they are referred to as "the
guys", "my boys" or "homies" - either he has
horrible name recognition skills or he doesn't
want to let you get to close to knowing more
abut his private life.
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9. No socializing allowed. Facebook account -
private. Twitter account - private. Your requests
to be added. DENIED. If you are good enough to
spend time with and do the down and dirty with,
you are good enough to be a part of his social
network.
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10. All of his exs live in Texas. And he knows where
they live, what they are doing at any given
moment and they are still on speed dial. If he is
still friends with every girl that he's every dated,
be warned. Guys like this rarely suffer any
emotional heartbreak. They quickly move on to
the next and somewhere in his mind he may
think you are already the next ex