6 REASONS WHY BEAUFIFUL WOMEN DON,T STAY LONG IN MARRIAGE

6 REASONS WHY BEAUFIFUL WOMEN DON,T STAY
LONG IN MARRIAGE
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Do you know that majority of women who find it
difficult to get married and those who get married
but after a short time they are sent away by their
husband are ladies who think of themselves as
beautiful?
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They feel too big and even pretend to be what they
are not. It’s complicated! Read this exposé…
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Have you heard women complain about that there
are no serious men to marry these days? According
to these women, who are often in their late 20s and
30s, men just want to date – not to settle down.
But what these ladies fail to understand is that real men
are very particular when it comes to choosing
someone for a serious relationship that could
possibly lead to marriage.
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A woman can be beautiful, intelligent and ambitious,
but all these good virtues can be nullified by one or
two negative traits. The following are some of the
traits affecting such ladies:
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1) The ‘Socialite mentality’
The ‘socialite mentality’ is a disease that seems to
have afflicted most 20-something year old ladies.
Signs of this malady are manifested by sudden
realization that they are the ‘hottest’ in their area.
The infected wear skimpy clothes, and capture their
‘amazing’ outfits on android phone and proceed to
post these pictures on social media for attention.
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Ladies, if you want to capture attention and earn the
respect of people, go the Lupita Nyon’go way.
Explore your talents, develop your ideas and work
relentlessly until you break a record. Then the men
leading equally successful lives will come for you and
have you for keeps.
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2) Anti-family
Any responsible man holds his family with highest
regard. He will go out of his way to create time for
his parents and take very good care of them at all
cost. Before considering a lady for a serious
relationship, a man will first try to ascertain her view
towards family.
If she disrespects her parents, lives oblivious of her
siblings and talk down on people then she is
considered anti-family. In the guy’s mind the lady will
make a poor wife..just play with her and move on.
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There is also a crop of ladies who are so close to their
fathers/mothers yet raise ruckus whenever the guy
wants to spend some quality time with his family,
especially his mother. Trying to compete with a guy’s
mother for his attention is a crazy idea.
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3) Lack of ambition
If you wish to have a guy consider you for marriage,
then you should at least get focused with your life.
Get your priorities straight, have ambitions, work
towards achieving your goals and take your studies or
job seriously. If all your ‘future plans’ happen to be
on where the next coolest party is then don’t expect
any guy to take you seriously.
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Practice moderation, striving to be responsible and
industrious. Every man wants the assurance that the
lady he is getting hitched to is hardworking so she can
effectively run things when he’s not around.
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4) Extreme materialism
Since the days of the cave men, women only mate
with those who can provide and protect their
families. However, it’s totally wrong to stick with a
guy just because he can afford to sustain your
expensive lifestyle only to disappear when his cash
flow recedes.
It’s easy to spot a gold-digger. All she wants to do is
hang out in fancy places, buy new cloths, shoes,
phones, etc., etc. When you are together, you never
get to have any meaningful conversations.
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Once a guy realizes you are for his possessions, he
re-strategizes. You become his trophy girlfriend. He
may buy you a nice dress and shoe, maybe phone,
but it ends at that. You can’t be a wife.
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5) False sense of importance
Such a lady has a bloated ego and false sense of
importance. She thinks she is doing a guy a favor by
being with him. He is, therefore, expected to be
grateful that he should provide whenever she asks.
Guys, please it’s rather draining to date a lady who is
convinced you were sorely created to serve her. She
will expect you to drop all your plans and run to her
side whenever she wants. Since she believes that she
can get any man on the planet, whenever you fight
she is inclined to issue ultimatums.
A guy who wants to settle down with a lady that will
bring peace into his life should go for someone who
is humble. She should be able to associate well with
you, whether you spend on her that day on not.
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6) Selfishness
When a lady is selfish a real man will know; she
doesn’t care how much you earn and how much you
have to work to earn that money. All she’s concerned
about is buy this for me, buy that for me. Such a lady
can never be a good wife. Even if she’s dating a
married man he will soon run away from her.