‘Do I have a future with the person I’m dating?, How do I know?’ read d ANSWER

ARE YOU IN THEIR FUTURE?
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I receive lots of messages from people asking me, ‘Do I have a future with the person I’m dating?, How do I know?’ Today I want to address that.
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If you want to know whether someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them from your mind.
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When you remove all the shine from a diamond, it becomes a glass rock. What value is it then? See beneath the surface and you will know who your future is with.
Don’t think about their looks, the intimate moments or their personality. Think about how they made you feel, how they improved your life and what virtues they possess that pushed you to want to become better.
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Did they bring you closer to God? Did they bring you to your life’s mission? Did they ever lie to you, betray you or made it impossible for you to feel comfortable speaking your mind?
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One thing you have to know is attraction is common but people mistake that for love. What is rare is having someone who wants to grow and build with you, a soul partner, a soul confidante, a soul mate.
Love is a verb, not a noun. It is active. Love is not just feelings of passion and romance.
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 It is a behavior.
If someone lies to you, he/she is behaving unlovingly toward you. Such a person is disrespecting you and your relationship.
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The words “I love you” are not enough to determine who is the “Right” one. Don’t kid yourself that they are.
In conclusion "Take good counsel and accept correction, that’s the way to live wisely and well" - Proverbs 19:20 (MSG).
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