Did you marry your husband to completely isolate him from his family?

I don't know why some women after getting married consider their husband's relatives as their foes. They flood their household with their relatives but cannot allow even one of the husband's kinsmen to stay with them. They develop one ilk of hatred or the other towards them. They disrespect the husband's parents despite the fact that he came to the world through them.
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Their husbands cannot interact with his relatives freely when they are around. The husband's relatives cannot visit him. The husband cannot help his kinsmen unless you are not aware of it.
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Did you marry your husband to completely isolate him from his family or does the saying that "a man should leave his family and be joined together should leave his father and mother(including his siblings and kinsmen) means complete separation from his family? You love him but hate his parents or siblings right?
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Your love for your husband is not complete if you cannot embrace his relatives. You getting married to him means accepting his parents as your parents, siblings as your siblings, his people as your people just like Ruth in the Bible who followed Naomi her mother-in-law after the death of her husband by saying "your people shall be my people and your God shall be my God".
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You husband, don't be blindfolded by the love of your wife by turning you against your family. Know when your wife is right and wrong and also ensure that she treats your relatives fairly and doesn't stop your from helping them when the need arises because you can't be separated from your family unless you choose to.
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To the relatives, don't be a stumbling block or put asunder between your brother and your sister-in-law, you have to embrace her as your sister and not consider her as your enemy or treat her like an alien.
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UNA GOODMORNING