unusual RED BIRTHMARK dat will surprise u and here what her mum says
Mom of girl with large red birthmark across her face slams strangers who stare and insists it is her 'unique beauty'
In
a post shared on her blog, Twelve and Six, Katie, from Atlanta,
Georgia, explained that her daughter Charlie Kate was born with a
'strawberry birthmark' known as a capillary hemangioma on her face that
is about two inches wide and two inches long. However, she stresses that
her daughter is more than just a birthmark - and there is no reason to
'pity' her.
'We
don’t need to talk about it every time you look at her,' Katie wrote.
'We see past the color of her face. Charlie is Charlie and it’s part of
who she is. It doesn’t need to be constantly commented on, critiqued, or
questioned.'
Katie
said that she doesn't 'mind educating curious minds', but some people
tend to overstep their bounds by offering their opinions on the mark or
the affect it might have on Charlie in the future.
'It’s
a part of her unique beauty. It may never disappear, and guess what? It
doesn’t have to,' Katie said. 'I would much rather chat about her
latest milestone achievement, her amazing smile, or how gorgeous her
eyes are.
'She isn’t in pain or ill. She simply has an unusual quality about her appearance.'
There
is no known cause or prevention for hemangiomas, which are an abnormal
build-up of blood vessels in the skin or internal organs, and while they
often go away on their own as the child gets older, physicians
recommend that they are monitored to ensure that the nodule doesn't
interfere with vision or breathing.
Katie
told Daily Mail Online that Charlie has seen specialists and is under
the care of doctors to make sure her daughter's capillary hemangioma,
which has been deemed cosmetic, doesn't cause any problems.
The
mother-of-two, who also has a son named Grayson, noted in her essay
that people will commonly say things like, 'I'm praying that it goes
away' or 'Bless, her poor little heart', and she is constantly being
asked, 'When will that go away?'
'I’ve even heard things as harsh as “turn her to her good side” or “Too bad, she’s so pretty otherwise”,' she added.
Katie
went on to encourage people to pray that Charlie grows up to confident
and filled with self-love 'no matter what she looks like' instead of
wishing that her birth mark will disappear.
'Hold
the pity. She’s a healthy baby girl and we are blessed,' she explained.
'Her hemangioma is just as insignificant to who she is as a freckle on
her arm. You don’t need to mention it, and you don’t need to wish it
away.'
Katie
told Daily Mail Online said she doesn't feel like she is doing Charlie
an 'injustice by not having it cosmetically removed' because she was
bullied as a child even though there was nothing visibly wrong with
her.
'I think to protect our children from bullies we should instill confidence and values in who they are, the way they were made,' she said. 'No one wants their child to be picked on, but children can be ruthless. They will pick on kids for their name, their brand of shoes, or the way they talk. It's just something that may or may not happen.'
Katie
said she has received dozens of supportive emails from parents of
children with hemangiomas, as well as adults who had large birthmarks as
children, many of which said they didn't have a difficult time with
bullies 'because of the positive way their primary caregivers and family
handed it'
Culled from UK Daily Mail
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