She's ready to be a wife if you show her the qualities of a husband.

The Category Each Woman Falls Into
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In the 21st century relationship, some women fall under three categories namely :
1. A Girl 
2. A Material Girl and 
3. A Real Woman 
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A Girl
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Being a girl is a stage in every woman's life. All grown woman of today were once upon a girl but whoever refuse to outgrow that stage may remain a girl.
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A girl claims the maturity of a woman but has the attitudes of a girl. A girl can be educated, beautiful, presentable, hard working and independent. She may have all it takes to get a man but lacks what it takes to keep them. A girl is more interested in a good height rather than a good heart. She's more concerned about a man's situation more than his destination. A girl has an endless preference for her type of man. He must be tall, rich, handsome, successful, educated, talented, funny, sensitive, outspoken, quiet, caring, romantic, kind, handy, gentle, presentable, strong, good in bed, etc. 
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She blindly build a wall around herself by raising her standard so high that no man is ever good enough. A girl goes into every relationship without a purpose. Until you know where you are going and your purpose for going there, you may never get anywhere in life. Without purpose, any efforts can be a complete waste of time. 
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A girl is very quick to lose a man before getting him. A girl would turn up peaceful first date into a top job interview. She will start asking questions like What's your credit score?, How much do you have in your retirement account?, How many degrees do you have?, Do you own a house?, etc. 
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She wants a Mr Right now and put pressure on a new guy and makes him run away. A girl is a pro in a blame game, she will date 3 men within 6months and says men are all the same. She would do the same thing every time expecting a different result. She's quick to start a new relationship without taking her time to learn why the last one failed. 
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She will ignorantly expose her relationship with everybody thinking she's taking advice. A girl is more concerned about the wedding day rather than the marriage. She has no understanding of the roles of a woman in a marriage and she's not ready to learn. 
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A girl can't find a balance between her career and her matrimonial home. She's more focus on making a living and totally forgets to live. A girl is a nag, she lacks patience and complains every time about everything. A girl can frustrate peace out of any man and turn a gentleman into a beast. 
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Communication with a girl is a one way traffic because she only loves to be heard but hates to listen. She will bring into her matrimonial home the bad experiences about other people's failed marriages and treat her husband badly for the things he knew nothing about. A girl always complain about what her man is doing wrong but never gives credit for what he's doing right. She turns her matrimonial home into a battlefield and complains her husband never stay at home. 
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A Material Girl 
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The beauty of a woman is not only in her physical appearance. A material girl is a frivolous girl who believes in material things to give her love. She believes her love is not for free. The difference between a material girl and a girl is that a material girl knows what she wants. 
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To a material girl, a relationship is a job while marriage is a source of income. A material girl only functions on benefits and will do anything as long as cash is involved. Dating or marrying a material girl can be frustrating and a complete waste of time. No matter how much you try, you can hardly satisfy a woman whose love is only for sale. It's easy to know a material girl because she can't pretend for long. 
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A material girl is allergic to endurance because she has no interest in the future. It's really hard to have future plans with someone whose interest is only in the present. A material girl is a female player who can date 5 men at the same time for different benefits, for attention and affection are measurable. Your financial status determines how much you get. You can never waste her time because time is nothing to her. 
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A woman whose only intention was to get money or other benefits from her relationship must be ready to forget her pride and dignity because a man who wins your love with money alone may never have any respect for you. He may end up treating you like one of his possessions he purchased with cash. Without dignity and respect, life becomes worthless. 
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A Real Woman 
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A real woman is a beautiful angel with the characters of a queen. She's the best gift any man can get. A real woman is ambitious, independent, faithful, intelligent, adorable, peaceful and God fearing. 
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She's a grown up mature woman regardless of her age who knows what she wants in her relationship. Although she's not perfect, she would continue to work on her flaws. She's not ready for players because she has no time for games. While she's waiting for her dream man, she's working on making herself a dream woman. 
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A real woman can be emotional but won't love without her brain. If you are good, she's an angel and if you are bad, she will put you where you need to be. She's not after your money because she can take care of herself. She's more concerned about what drives a man rather than what he drives. A real woman measures a man's worth by his level of wisdom and the love of God and how discipline he can be towards finances and family and how well he treats others.
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A real woman doesn't complain a lot, she would absorb for a while and then call her man's attention to the matters arising. She would be peaceful in her approach and be just in her judgements. She gets angry but not forever. She forgets quickly but has her limits. She's dedicated and family oriented. She would pray for her man and pray with him. She would talk to him rather than talking about him. Her family is her priority and would do anything to safe her home. 
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She knows how to find a balance between work and home. A real woman would choose everlasting joy instead of temporary luxury. Real woman don't settle for less not because they are proud but because they know their worth. When a boy date a real woman, he said she's too arrogant and hard to handle but the truth is the real women are not made for boys. She will only follow if you prove to her that you know where you are going in life. 
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She's ready to be a wife if you show her the qualities of a husband. Some men are lucky to have a real woman in their lives but they ignorantly pushed her away and end up with a material woman who is beautiful but give them heart attack. So many men lost their precious diamonds while they are busy collecting ordinary stones.
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WHO ARE YOU MY DEAR?