3 Things You Should Always Tell Your Husband

3 Things You Should Always Tell Your Husband
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This list may seem like common sense to some, but
you may be surprised how many husbands are not
getting enough of this in their marriage. Many times
the feelings of men get taken for granted, and what
is needed by them emotionally, far too often gets
completely dismissed. So here are 3 things I believe
every wife should embrace telling their husband
through their words as well as their actions.
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1. That You Want Him
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A man wants to feel desired by their wife. Nobody
likes the feeling of just being a space filler in a
marriage. It is very important for wives to find ways
to say and show how much they want their husband.
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Not a husband, but him specifically. What I mean is
that some men have been made to feel like their
wife values being married more than she values
being with him. This creates issues that will simply
lead to bigger issues. It is a very damaging feeling to
have, so a wife must assist in stopping that from
happening. With that said she should be mindful of
not showing desire how she sees fit, but in a way that
he needs to receive it. That of course will depend on
each man, and being willing to find out what he
needs is a great step in the right direction.
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2. That You Respect Him
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If he doesn’t feel respected then he won’t feel loved.
No man enjoys being in the position of constantly
being undermined, belittled, and talked to any kind
of way. It chips away at his manhood, and will create
negative energy between him and his wife. Respect is
needed for a successful relationship to exist. Some
women may feel their lack of respect is warranted,
but that doesn’t change the fact of how damaging it
will be. Also, it must be recognized when it is in
some ways unprovoked. Which typically happens
when deeper issues have been held on to, and his
past actions, not his current actions – are the real
reason for the disrespect to be displayed. If there is
truly an issue blocking the ability to express respect,
then it must be addressed in a positive and loving
manner. Because at the end of the day if there is no
respect, there is no relationship.
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3. That You Appreciate Him
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One of the worst mentalities to have is the “they’re
supposed to do that” mindset. You know what I mean? For example if as a husband he takes out the
trash, provides for the family, and helps out with the
kids. Instead of his efforts being appreciated, the
wife rationalizes that no display of appreciation is
warranted, because he’s her husband, and “he’s
supposed to do that”. That kind of thinking
completely ignores the fact that with every action he
takes, he had to make a choice to do it. There are
plenty of wives with men who choose otherwise.
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Appreciation breeds production.
Therefore a lack of it creates a breakdown in any
relationships which will lead to a decreased desire to
do for their partner. So instead of thinking “he’s
supposed to do that”, a wife should remind herself
that “he chose to do that” and be willing to express an
appreciation for his efforts.
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Looking at this list, some people will probably say
that women want these exact same things. Which is
true, but I just decided to place the focus on the
husbands with this one because people tend to forget
how much men need this as well. Plenty of other
things could have been listed, but this is a great place
to start. A wife should embrace expressing more
desire, respect, and appreciation in her marriage. It
can truly pour into her husband what he needs, and
contribute to creating the happy and successful
relationship that is best for the both of them.
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God Bless ur Household.